SimplyGabrielle

I know at times it can be very difficult to not warn friends about other people, but let me tell you how that can be more detrimental than a good thing. Doing this, you may be stunting another persons growth and stopping a lesson that needed to happen. Whether with your friend, that person, or both. I remember watching an episode of “Red Table Talk” , which is a Facebook series of Jada  Pinkett Smith’s. On one episode she had Gabrielle Union, that was their first time speaking in seventeen years due to some unresolved issues and drama. Gabrielle then spoke honestly about how much of a negative person she was, how she felt small in the presence of other women who received equal attention, and if it wasn’t for AJ Johnson (and hitting rock bottom)  calling her out at a party she would have never noticed and then changed her behavior. Gabrielle mentioned how she was insecure and talking about others made her feel “bigger”, we all know a person who may be just that, so we cut them...

Setting the tone for your life is a part of the healing process, we must remove all toxic people from our lives. This process can sometimes be the hardest because the most toxic people are those that we love and have history with. Another way of setting the tone is by either telling family and friends to not bring the negative energy your way, or simply not feed into it. We all know the saying “if you don’t feed it, it won’t grow”, that pertai ns to all areas of life. What you give your attention to will manifest in your life, the good and bad. I remember texting my spiritual sista and she would never respond, I would blame it on her being busy, then in a conversation one day she told me she didn’t respond on purpose because she didn’t want to discuss something we’ve discussed a thousand times, and also because it was a level she had already mastered. Most would say “as a friend she should still listen”, but I totally agree with her way of thinking, she was and still is setting the ton...

The best way to get to a peaceful, easy, care free, , money filled life is to simply.......... Wait, there is no specific way. The closest we’ll get to the “right path to began our journey” is by following like minded people, but even still, their obstacles are not your obstacles. Another persons journey is just that, another persons. Now of course we can take notes of what another is doing, why reinvent the wheel and go through more troubles than the inevitable? The unfortunate part of following ones lead to your own journey is that, you may not agree on all things or they may be on a level that you actually aren’t ready for, or it simply isn’t for you. I’ll give an example, my focus is on self healing, veganism, and evolvement. I have two home girls who are on a totally different level than I am, from the veganism to the spirituality. There were times where I would beat myself up for not being able to- or being too lazy- cook such extravagant meals. I would also get upset that I ...