Setting the tone for your life

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Setting the tone for your life is a part of the healing process, we must remove all toxic people from our lives. This process can sometimes be the hardest because the most toxic people are those that we love and have history with. Another way of setting the tone is by either telling family and friends to not bring the negative energy your way, or simply not feed into it. We all know the saying “if you don’t feed it, it won’t grow”, that pertains to all areas of life. What you give your attention to will manifest in your life, the good and bad. I remember texting my spiritual sista and she would never respond, I would blame it on her being busy, then in a conversation one day she told me she didn’t respond on purpose because she didn’t want to discuss something we’ve discussed a thousand times, and also because it was a level she had already mastered. Most would say “as a friend she should still listen”, but I totally agree with her way of thinking, she was and still is setting the tone for her life. This woman refuses to let anyone - whether she cares for you or not- bring continuous negativity around her, toxifiying her energy. We all must utilize this way of thinking and not be afraid to let people know “I no longer want to entertain your negative way of thinking and dealing with life”. Let’s not get this confused with not allowing a person to express themselves to you, that is fine. It is when a person refuses to help themselves, and then decides to bring self inflicted issues to you to fix. And remember, energy TRANSFERS.

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  1. Unknown7/31/2018

    My favorite thus far, keep up the good work!

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